Since having my surgery 2 years ago, I have been asked a lot of questions about the operation. I thought it would be a good idea to put some of these questions and answers together on one post for those who are interested. Please leave a message if you have any more questions and I will try my best to answer them.
How long is the recovery?
- This isn't quite as straightforward to answer as you'd imagine, especially as everyone recovers differently and at different rates. But I'll try and break down MY recovery a bit:
- 1-4 weeks - This is the worst of the swelling/discomfort/nerve damage/lack of energy/not talking/ time off from work and college etc..
- 2 months - Most of the discomfort is now gone - Not quite speaking coherently - Since starting on solid food I have very quickly progressed with eating again - Back to college
- 3-4 months - Still a bit of swelling - Speech is back to normal - Still have some nerve damage in lips and chin - Back to work
- 6 months - All swelling is now gone - I have most of the feeling back in my face, but still experience some tingling in my chin where the nerves are still trying to repair themselves.
- 12-18 months - No more change to the nerve damage, I am now fully recovered.
How long until you could go back to work/school after the surgery?
- I attempted to go back to college after 4 weeks, but due to lack of energy it wasn't until 6 weeks i could go back properly.
- I also attempted to go back to work after 2 months, but as i still could not speak properly and i worked in a customer service role, i couldn't properly go back until 3 months.
Is it painful?
- It is not painful. Since you get a lot of nerve damage during the operation, your face will be very numb and so you do not feel pain. However, you may experience some discomfort due to the swelling. A combination of ice packs and hot packs may help you with this.
Any advice on how to cope with not eating?
- If I am totally honest, I did not cope well with not being able to eat after my operation. It took me 10 months after my recovery before I could even think about having soup again! But seriously if you're having jaw surgery, you will definitely want to stock up on lots of different kinds of soup for a couple weeks after the operation. You will also want to stock up on lots of soft food such as bread and pasta. My advice would be take things slow when it comes to eating. Don't try and force yourself to eat solid food if it is too tiring, this is a big operation and you're not expected to be able to have fluid movement in your jaw straight away - it is a long process. Week 3 was the hardest week for me in terms of eating. I started to feel more human and less like I was in a drug induced trance and so I was starting to really feel the hunger, however I still couldn't eat solid food and I had absolutely no energy whatsoever. I think this is where it is most important to drink lots and lots of water. Also, yoghurts were soooo nice and easy to eat and such a nice break from the soup! There's not much more I can say about this as it's different for everyone - just take each day as it comes and prepare your family/friends for some hangry outbursts!
How much did this operation cost?
- I live in the UK where we have free healthcare and so this operation was done on the NHS. Unfortunately, I can not give an accurate figure of how much this would cost in other countries. I would recommend having a search online or asking a professional how much it would cost to have this surgery done in your country.
How old do you have to be to have this surgery?
- There is no set age limit to have this operation. However, most surgeons will advise you not to have this surgery until you are fully grown, due to the possibility of your bones continuing growing after the operation meaning you would have to go back after a few years to have the same operation redone - and I could not imagine many people would like to go through the recovery twice.
Did the surgery change the shape of your nose?
- My nose has changed shaped due to this surgery, it naturally widened and lifted a little bit when my upper jaw was moved forwards.
How long did it take for the swelling to go down?
- In total, it took about 4-5 months for all the swelling to completely go.
How long did you have braces before and after the surgery?
- Before the surgery I had braces on my top and bottom teeth for a total of about 20 months. Afterwards, I only had braces on for about 3 and a half months.
Do you have any permanent nerve damage from this surgery?
- I was told about 1 in 10 people experience some permanent nerve damage after surgery. I do happen to have a tiny bit of permanent numbness in my chin. However, it is a very small area with what I'd say is about 70% feeling in that area. I rarely notice it and it is a very insignificant problem for me.
Were you bullied for your face before?
- I was lucky enough to not experience much 'direct' bullying, by this I mean there were only a handful times where people would be rude about my appearance to my face. However, I did have to put up with a lot of people staring, whispering, and occasionally pointing at me and laughing throughout my teenage years. My advice to anyone experiencing being bullied would be to remember it is only temporary. You are not going to be bullied your entire life and you should not let it get to you - as difficult and sometimes impossible as that seems to be. Often those who bully others are hiding their own insecurities by lashing out at other people. Just remember that EVERYONE is different and EVERYONE is beautiful.
Did you lose any weight after the operation?
- I did lose quite a bit of weight after the operation. Within the first 3 weeks I lost 1st 7lbs, most of this I put back on once i could eat solid foods again.
Was the surgery worth it?
- 100% - no doubt about it.